Friday Is Funday: The S Words: Scotland and Suicide

Several months ago a study was released showing that Scotland has a very high suicide rate: Every day two people in Scotland kill themselves. It’s actually a little more than two people if you average it out, but that gets too awkward. Do hamsters count? Because that’s like an eighth of a person, maybe. Clearly, numbers are not my strong suit.

But there’s good news: The Scottish government is committed to doing something about this, so for International Suicide Awareness Week (Sept. 4-10, Scotland is determined to work with other nations to educate people on the subject. Scotland’s Buchan Observer offers some tips for identifying and dealing with a person who may be suicidal. I think the suggestions are excellent, so I’m reprinting them here.

If someone you know…
• Talks about wanting to die, not seeing the point or a way out of their situation.
• Has been through stressful life events or experienced significant losses and doesn’t seem to be coping.
• Gives away prize possessions.
• Starts putting things in order e.g. arranging wills, pet or childcare.
• Shows marked changes in behaviour, appearance or mood. They may seem distracted, sad, distant or lacking in concentration. Also watch out for sudden
uplift in mood or calmness as this can sometimes be because the person feels they have found a solution to their problems, no matter how drastic this may be.
• Has made a previous suicide attempt.
..they may be at risk of suicide.

You can help. Be ALERT:
Ask if they are thinking about suicide.
You may feel frightened to bring up the subject of suicide in case you think it will put the idea in their head. This is not true. Don’t hesitate to raise the subject. Be direct in a caring and supportive way.
Listen and show you care.
Let the person talk about their feelings and listen carefully to what they have to say. Don’t judge them and rather than dismissing it as a ’silly thing to do’, try and understand why they are feeling this way. Let them know you care.
Encourage them to get help and support them to do so
Asking and listening are the first steps in developing a sense of hope. Now is the time to move forward with this hope and get help to keep the person safe. You may feel out of your depth to help the person, but there are people out there who can and you can put them in touch with someone who is qualified and able to help them.
Right now
If the person has an immediate suicide plan and the means to carry it out, do not leave them alone. Get help immediately by phoning a doctor, 999, a local crisis support service (look in a phone book, Yellow Pages or Thomson Directory) or one of the helplines below.
Tell someone
Never promise secrecy. Dealing with suicide can be difficult and you can’t do it alone. Find someone to talk to about your own feelings.

liz | 11:22 AM | Uncategorized